I wasn't really sure how to read him, and I'm usually pretty good at that.
After some brief small-talk (you know, the typical what-are-your-hobbies-what-are-you-looking-for chitchat), we set up a coffee date.
His easygoing and carefree personality was the polar opposite of my ex. It seemed like these sites were almost to set me up for a disaster.
The questions were surface-level (like, do you prefer romantic comedies or horror movies?
I wanted to take control of my life and smile again. As striking as this blonde-hair, blue-eyed guy was, he just wasn't stable enough for me. But OKCupid, e Harmony — none of them felt quite right for me.
Now here was something different; something I never, ever thought I would discover. But a part of me was very curious — too curious to ignore.) and it was impossible to get a sense of what these men were about.After one too many failed dates, I seriously considered starting my own dating site. Business idea: How could I make this more enjoyable for women, so they can weed out the bad eggs before suffering through a terrible date?I existed to make dinner for the kids and provide an open ear when he needed to vent.After 15 years — six of which involved intensive marriage counseling — I finally decided to walk away.
Search for couger dating:
I learned that he had two children and was separated, largely because he and his wife weren't intimate enough. He was looking for someone who was sexy, confident and stable, which he wasn't finding by dating younger women. After my past experience with the 29-year-old, I was worried that he might not be on my maturity level.